Hi anyone wanting answers out there for spouses??
Mine's had suicidal thoughts for several months,
we're married 4 yrs, she took o/dose 8 day ago,
tried to cut herself, getting Crisis help, feels
low all the time. Takes Fluoxetine in morning, recently Tremazepan at night (for sleeping) too.
Feel really guilty, because I shared thoughts w/ her a few months back I'd been struggling with feeling guilty, with looking at other women, which didn't help her self esteem, but which I've luckily stopped doing now, plus rare on occasions throughout our relationship mentioning displeasure at her weight- sometimes at beginning of relationship when it was naive of me to upset her like this, and at times when I've got angry in an argument, all this hasn't helped her at all, plus she's had a lot of weight gain throughout our marriage. (9 months going out, then 4 yrs married now)- the main trouble is knowing what to say & how confusing it is.
Sorry this is so long! About 10 yrs ago, she was hospitalised 14 mths, & 7 yrs ago she was cutting herself, her arm & hands covered in scars, & taking o/doses, although that all stopped ever since she really got Jesus into her life BIGSTYLE! Now, though, it's coming back, I hope day care may be the solution. I need to know how I can build her up lots. I show affection, but recently she can't have sex because of feelings. That's OK with me. I just will b there 4 her.
